1. TWO IS BETTER THAN ONE
Isn’t this saying true in just about every aspect of life? Two jobs are better than one because it brings in double the money, two cars are better than one because you get to choose exactly what car you want to drive today. What can be better than having an awesome boyfriend or an awesome girlfriend? How about having two of them? Two people making your food, two people cleaning up after you and most importantly two people to bring into the bedroom. Now I’m sure guys are reading this and thinking I’m the only man she needs. Wrong! I’m sure you’re a great boyfriend but if she had two of you she would be twice as happy!
2. SHE ABSOLUTELY NEEDS ATTENTION
Remember that time you told her that you were too busy watching the game to talk? Or how about that time you told her that you just wanted to go hangout with the fellas instead of staying home with her? Well, they may not seem like a big deal but to her it is. While you were out hanging out with your friends she was home lonely and depressed. Now I know what you’re thinking it was just one night! Trust me I know I know but for a female, she wants all of your attention at all times. So if you’re not willing to give it to her then trust me another guy will!
3. THE OTHER GUY IS HOT
Some things in life are simple and don’t quite need long explanations that involve trying to delve into the minds of a woman to understand her. There are so many reasons why women cheat which can leave a man scratching his head as to what he did wrong. Hey, maybe you didn’t do anything wrong at all. It could just be that she finds the guy incredibly attractive. I know that’s hard for guys to believe because that’s usually how a guy thinks. Guys cheat based solely on the appearance of the other woman but believe it or not many other women do as well.
4. SHE CHEATS BECAUSE SHE IS BORED
For reasons I’m not quite sure of women have a tendency to get bored quickly and as a man, it can become almost a second job to keep our women happy and interested in us at all times. Inevitably, however, it’ll happen she will just lose interest in you and start to think to herself what else or who else is out there? A guy from work, maybe someone she sees every day like the mailman or maybe even someone at the grocery store. Someone other than you will peak her interest and once that happens the short and friendly conversations turn into longer and more invasive ones. There’s no preventing this one fella, just brace yourself for it.
5. SHE HAS BEEN CHEATED ON BEFORE
Unfortunately, a lot of men out there have cheated on their partner but for a lot of women, it takes more than just one spot of infidelity for them to leave. Women forgive but they rarely forget. It doesn’t matter if it was five years ago or five days ago she will always remember what you did and keep it in the back of her mind. Although many women don’t actually plan on cheating it just happens at times. Women can be haunted by their own guilt so in order to justify cheating to themselves they just simply remembering when you did it to her.
6. CONFIDENT SHE WOULD NOT GET CAUGHT
When it comes to cheating, many if not all men feel as though they are masters at it and will never get caught by their partners. Let me hit you guys with a reality check. It’s the women who are the true masters of cheating! Guys have a tendency to expose themselves. How do you ask? Well, we’ll do little things such as not show her our text messages and call logs and disappear for long stretches of the day without a valid excuse. You’ll never catch a woman doing any of that. She’ll show you her phone and tell you her whereabouts just to make you feel comfortable. Women cheat because they simply feel confident that they won’t get caught in the first place.
7. FEELING WANTED IS A TURN
All women want to feel wanted and it doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with you. I know that sounds confusing so let me explain. Of course, a woman wants her man to want her but after a certain amount of time, a woman begins to lose interest. It’s sad but it’s true! Sometimes it can be a bad thing when someone gets comfortable in a relationship. A woman needs to feel wanted, she needs to feel as though she’s the most beautiful and important person in the world. If her partner begins to slip in that aspect than her eyes will begin to wonder and eventually she will find a man or several men that will make her feel as though she is important.
8. SHE DOESN’T KNOW HOW TO BREAK IT OFF
Breaking up is hard to do! No one wants to be labeled as the person who broke someone else’s heart. Feelings dissolve at different paces. Just because she’s over you doesn’t mean that he is and vice versa. The best breakups occur when both partners agree that the relationship is going downhill and it’s best to just separate. Unfortunately, those situations are hard to come by. What’s more likely to happen is that one person is ready to leave while the other is desperate to hold on. Now sure technically you’ll still have the title of being her “boyfriend” but emotionally she’ll already be gone and cheating on you with someone else.
9. THE OTHER GUY HAS A LOT OF MONEY
Women love to shop! Purses, shoes, and dresses. A woman needs it all. You can be a hard working man that goes to work five days a week in order to provide a stable life for his woman. Now although that is admiral guess what? It’s not enough! She wants a man that is going to spend, spend and spend some more! Now maybe that isn’t in your budget. Well sorry to tell you guys but she is going to cheat on you with a man that will.